It does sound like ultimately, you are the standard of right and wrong. And Reform Judaism does not believe in the Messiah when Moses Himself said the Messiah (a prophet like him) would come and that the people should then hear Him (the Messiah) when He does come. So would take their attitude towards homosexuality with a pinch of salt.

What if a person is born and grows up to be sexually attracted to their own siblings? It is just the way the person is and they were born that way. This sexual attraction is due to no choice of theirs. Would you be tolerant of them having sex with their own sibling?

Why or why not?

Secondly, I still have not seen where the Bible nuances its condemnation of homosexuality, I did not see any chapter or verses. You seem to simultaneously be saying the Bible is wrong and then there are meanings of the verses you call "clobber verses" that somehow do not condemn homosexuality.

Finally, I think it is interesting that this same book written by ignorant and culturally biased people (who met Jesus, and heard His teachings directly by the way) can still change lives when read and interpreted in context as a whole.

What in your reading and interpretation of scripture as a whole is pro LGBTQ?