Love includes speaking the truth to people my friend...it's not hugs, kisses and unconditional thumbs ups.

Loving God is loving truth, Jesus is truth. There is no scripture that says God created people gay, it's not "who they are" anymore than a very bad mannered person or a serial killer or a compulsive liar or an unfaithful man who serially cheats on his wife is "who they are".

Humans are born in sin and homosexuality is just one strand of that. Everyone born of a man has their own sun baggage to deal with...but to say there is absolutely nothing wrong with that baggage is to be arrogant, deluded and rebellious against God.

Acting lovingly doesn't mean calling evil good and calling good evil. The first mandate is to love God above all, then you love others. So putting His truth first...before the feelings of others.