Morning Sanaa,
Thank you for your comment but can I ask if you are now condemning your prophet? Because when the Quran orders you in Surah 9:29 to fight those who do not believe in Allah, this has nothing to do with whether they are hostile to you or not. It says you should fight them because THEY DO NOT BELIEVE IN ALLAH, so the Quran says you as a Muslim ought to be fighting people on the basis of their belief.
Surah 9:30, explains 9:29 and says why you are ordered to fight Christians and Jews. Because Christians say the Messiah is the son of Allah and Jews Say Ezra is the son of Allah. In order words, people are to be fought just because of what they believe in.
Again your prophet said he has been commanded to fight all of mankind until they say there is no God but Allah and acknowledge him as a prophet. He said until they pray like Muslims and eat like Muslims their blood and property is not safe from his hands.
"The Messenger of Allah [SAW] said: 'I have been commanded to fight the people until they say La ilaha illallah. If they say it then their blood and their wealth are safe from me, except for a right that is due, and their reckoning will be with Allah"
Sunan An Nisai 3971
Abubakar, the first of the rightly guided Caliphs based on this saying of Muhammad fought fellow Muslims who were not paying the zakay exactly as they would pay it to Muhammad when he was alive.
So if you think it is wrong to fight non Muslims, you are condemning your prophet.
And to be honest nobody cares what you or the Muslims you know think. Everybody sees the consistent and relentless spate of terrorist attacks by those Muslims who disagree with you...and those are the ones we are worried about.
And more importantly we are worried about this ideology called Islam which keeps churning out terrorists worldwide faster than you can say "Muhammad".