You have skilfully evaded every question asked with word salad...either that or I have been hopelessly unclear. You did stress that gay people were born a certain way and have no choice in the matter and I just posed a question to you, would the same logic fly with an incestious person? Is the fact they (WHETHER GAY OR STRAIGHT) are born with this sexual inclination towards their siblings or parents through no choice of that own, grounds to give them liberty to pursue such a relationship?
And then think about your world view. The life and teachings of Jesus have the entire backdrop of the Bible as His context. Love your neighbour for example is from Leviticus, the same one with the "Clobber verse". The same Jesus based on Genesis defined marriage as A man and A woman.
Finally, Jesus message was not just love, compassion, understanding and acceptance as you say. The very first public words of Jesus we have recorded in the gospel is REPENT. Jesus called for people to change not to remain as they are. Jesus warned that sinners will perish and Jesus spoke of Hell.
I will leave you now..buti just want to point out your hypocrisy to you. You enlist Jesus, the Talmud, ancient texts etc as allies for your LGBTQ cause but then they become dropped like a hot sack of potatoes or ignorant and irrelevant the moment they contradict your LGBTQ cause.
What does that tell you about yourself?
Have a good day